If you feel
your level of confidence is still below the average, do not worry because
confidence can be nurtured and molded anytime you want. The effect is not just
how you feel at that time as well, but the long-term effects will help you to
success.
1.
Confidence begins with responsibility
Director of
The Institute of efective Thinking, Gerald Kushel, in a study of some managers
find the relationship between responsibility and self-confidence. Mentioned
that managers who have a sense of responsibility for what he did have a higher
level of confidence. They will attempt to approach perfection in doing things.
No matter the obstacles they face, because they believe that what is the best
thing and dared to bear all the risk.
2.
Positive self-assessment
You are what
you think. When you think you can not afford and the most stupid people in the
world, then that's yourself. Regularly evaluate yourself with a positive
assessment, a sense of confidence that you will continue to rise.
You should replace all the deadly phrase you: I can not, be a sentence that
builds your confidence: I can and I'm capable of.
3.
Recognize potential
Know thyself, and you will know the potential that you have. Someone who
started with what has been understood and mastered it will be easier to do so.
It will also have an impact on confidence levels. When you feel comfortable,
then your confidence will also increase.
Of course, to know the potential you also must involve other people. Ask the
opinion of the people around about you. Then write what they say. Match those
opinions. Opinions that has many similarities to so it is your potential.
4.
Criticism and negative advice is motivation
Percentage
of people who hates and pleased with you, more people who hate you. When you
are at the top with all the achievements your success, then it will be many
people who want to bring you down. As the saying goes, the higher the tree will
be faster winds that hit it.
Criticism and negative advice indeed spicy and deafening sound, but you can
turn it into a motivational self-evident that you can afford.
5. Migration to the success environment
Neighborhood
has a significant impact to the development of the self. Environment are
successful people, successful people's attitudes will rub off on you. Likewise,
in the environment with people who do not have a future, you will also
underestimate a success. And it is impossible if you too will experience a
crisis of confidence.
6. Always smiling
The secret behind the smile is remarkable. You just simply do it in one second,
you will be feeling better when nervous struck. Smile is worship and a smile is
happiness.
7. Forget about the standard of success
It is not easy to build mental success for start-up businesses. Standards were
given very heavy. As a result, you will experience a crisis of confidence
because they are not able to meet given standards.
This situation is not very good. Now it's time for you to forget the standards
and shouted out loud that you can. See what's happening to you? Are they
injected new energy or further drop?
Source
Werdiningsih , Febriana. Millionaire
2016 Campus. Yogyakarta: Trans Ideas Publishing.
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